Love

i love a guy who is my relative but the relation is such that we can marry easily.But the problem is our families.We are engaged from last 5 years.Before one n half year both our families had n argument and they splitted their business but now my papa and his papa talks with each other nicely.Another problem is I am a working professional i.e.I am s/w engineer and he is just a BCom graduate with this we two dnt have any problem but i think my family will have.His family is aware of our relations, they are not accepting our relation his mother says that if he will marry me then he will not have any place in their home but he is quite sure that they will accept afterwords.My family is not aware of all this We are planning to tell them in this month because I don;t want to marry him without my parents permission they matter me a lot.His sister-in-law is suggesting us to marry in the court and then tell my parents but i don't think this is a good way.What should I do can anybody help me

You would have to gauge what you are seeking out in life and work according to what you pursue in. You would have to understand the situation, which your father and his father are in as well. It is good that you did not marry him without both his and your parents’ permission. We can sort it out further by understanding what you want first. Jennifer [e-mail address removed]