Haunting dreams

Hi can anyone please help me. I keep having dreams about getting back with my ex. We broke up over 6 years ago, I've had another failed long-term relationship since. The ex I dream about recently got married and has a baby now. I loved him very much when we were together, we were soon to be married but he called it off, we stayed friends until about a year ago, he's horrible to me now. But I dream about him so often. It's very upsetting, I wake up so depressed. I know I can't get back with him obviously and I would'nt want to. But how can I stop these dreams? I've tried meeting other people, I really want to be with someone new, I've tried forgetting about him and in the day I don't think of him at all but at night he's there! PLEASE HELP

Hi DANI7278, You see that the possible reason you dream of him could be because you miss having him in your life and you want him back, but ever since he got married, you started to have more dreams of him. I think the best way to stop this is to go p to him and tell him you miss him and ask if you to could go back to being friends or whatever. If he wasn't married and had a child, you could have asked him to go back in a relationship with you. Now I am not asking you to tear his family apart, but to try to reconcile with him and try to find a new guy out there. It may be hard, but there's a guy for everyone. YOU JUST HAVEN'T FOUND YOUR RIGHT PERSON YET so keep trying. BE LIVELY, BE UNIQUE, BE YOURSELF!!!

Hi, thank you for your reply. The thing is I don't really miss him. It would be nice if we could be friends but there's no chance of that especially now. He owes me money, he always said he would pay me back and we were amicable about it for years, due to his lack of a job at the time and my bad health, it wasn't a major issue but now I want to get it finally sorted, he is refusing to pay me back. I'm even having to get a solicitor involved. So there's definitely no chance of being friends again. I'm a little sad but this hasn't affected my dreams, I mean I don't dream of him any extra to I did before! And I definitely don't want him back!! We would never have worked out anyway, but I do agree that I think it's because I feel so lonely and want to be with someone and because I did love him so much before. I can't seem to meet any one at the moment and like I said I don't think of him this way anymore. I just don't know how to stop the dreams :'-(