Age diff

Hi All, I have been chatting to a girl who works at a local cafe and recently we have been chatting a lot most days. I want to ask her out but problem is im 34 and shes 19 and Im worried about the age gap. I would like to know others opinion on this

It's hard to say. 19 is young. The same age difference, ten years later wouldn't matter at all. If you do get started with her, just understand that she will most likely not hang around. Even if she does love you. When I was that age, I dated a man ten years older than me and I ended up hurting him. If she is ok with it then you should go for it.

I think, if you are self conscious about it with other people, or feel awkward if you were to be asked what the age difference is then you already know the answer. A few fun dates, something like a fling, that would be fine. You never know what happens after that. The worst that happens is she says no. You'd have to find a new cafe,