Worried Boyfriend Will Turn Into His Dad

I am constantly worried my boyfriend will turn into his dad. His dad is very antisocial and likes to keep to himself. He kind of goes to family functions, but when he does, he is only present for a few hours. He is typically the first one to leave. One time when I went to have dinner with his parents, his dad stuck around for about 2 hours and then went to bed, at 7pm. His dad has told me on multiple occasions, “Is your family like this?” as if his family was some fucked up anomaly. I feel like he has too high standards of how they should be. They seem perfectly normal to me. They have problems but no more than the average family seems to have. I am not sure why he is so antisocial but I know it affects the relationship with my boyfriends mom. I am scared we will turn into that dynamic; where my boyfriend spends as much time to himself and only participates when he feels obligated with family. It makes me want to leave our relationship. I feel like when I get a sense of him being like his dad, I want to break-up to avoid an unpleanst future. I am scared of getting hurt or feeling like I wasted part of my life.

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