what do i do now

hi i was in a relationship for 4 years and my gf broke up with me i know why it broke up and so does she i sent her a email actually telling her why i thought we broke up and she said it was right basically we changed and forgot how to communicate to each other which as you know is a big nono ovesly i tried getting her back did all the wrong things we broke up 5 days ago and im so confused as soon as we broke up we started messaging each other which in its self is a little off as i kind of dosnt say end of relationship then she asked if we could be friends i said no and i couldnt under any circumstances theres her stuff in my flat we lived together now when we were together she said if she ever left shed want all her stuff but now she dosnt and the stuff she does want she keeps making excuses why she cant come get it and then comes up with outlandish ways she will pick it up knowing that its simply wont work whilst speaking to my friends they have pointed out the stuff, her being nice to me and the fact someone said she was seeing someone which made her go ballistic and said she hadnt moved on and also the compassion she showed when i got attacked as well as the fact i asked her out for coffee means she doesnt want to break up with me does anyne think this might be true or am i just adding 2 and 2 and getting 5 thanks also i dont know if this is important oone of our issues was her having her crazy nights out since we broke up there's been none and besides going out with her mums shes locked her self in her bedroom at her mums as i said dunno if its important i had removed her from Facebook and now also i v been reaccepted i hope its not to confusing if it is what i think what do i do do i act r do i let it pan out knowing that she may not make the first move

i want little more details now wht u feel now ..do u or she regret for past or still hiding anything gv me few details wht u thing for future and r u in a postion to faith her for ever..call me if need 09716532678