Too young for a dry spell

I have been in a relationship with my bf for three years. We grew up together and then wet our separate ways. When we first got together our sex life was great every now and again he would have a time to where he couldn't perform but nothing big. But the longer that we r together the more frequently it happens. And he says he doesn't even get horny anymore and for me not to take it personally but I do. I want to be with him forever but I do feel like this is a very important part of the relationship and he isn't interested anymore . What should I do we r both only 26 isn't this a little young for this problem?

It is definitely too young for starters. I would say that he is distracted by something that has his attention. It may be porn or perhaps someone else. Do you know if he has ADD or ADHD? There could be an issue there as that type of person can bore easily and be quite restless. They have a strong need to be stimulated (in other ways). Do your homework and have a frank discussion to determine the REAL underlying reasons why the bed is dead.

Sexual chemistry is such that a couple either has it, or does not have it. Its one of lifes mysteries. I'd have to say its lacking here for you. Maybe somthing will change.