We want different things

Hello, I am new to this but I have what I believe is a huge problem between me and my partner and I really need some advice. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I love him very much. I am 23 and he is 30. My problem is that when he was 24 he had a Vasectomy because he doesn't like or want children. Now, I absolutely love children and can not wait to become a mum. Honestly I am not ready to have children at the moment but I will be in the next year or so. I do not want to give up on my boyfriend as would love a future with him. We are a perfect match other then this and everyone that knows us tells us how good we are as a couple. This problem between us is really affecting me, as I feel so confused. Please help.

Ride with it. You being 23 gives you this ability and time to enjoy a man, maybe learn about yourself and of the ways you handle shortcomings in relationships. No need to worry about the feelings or thoughts you may have that maybe you are wasting time or investing time for nothing in the so called end, cause instead, just the opposite is true, this relationship is or can be a good investment for both of you, as long as mutual respect for one another remains.

Thank you for that. What I don't understand is where your coming with the good investment as how can it be a good investment if there may not be a future for us both? We have a lot of respect for each other and he has helped me through a lot. Before him I was married for a year but my ex husband was violent so it ended. He knew all this when we got together and he has been there for me when I felt low because of it. I just cant get over the fact that he doesn't want to have children with me when he says he wants to be with me forever.

You are wounded, as anyone would be, by the truth of the unchanging fact 'no kids'. Life is full of choices, that being said, you are blessed to have in your life a connection with someone you adore, appreciate, etc. Do not make the mistake of putting too much weight into the negative, negating the cool stuff that comes with this relationship. If you guys don't work out, well, my experience is that 'it' plays itself out like nature runs a course. You know?

JUST ASK HIM TO FUCK YOU SO YOU CAN HAVE A CHILD!