What to do next in life??????

Me and my boyfriend have been together for about two years. We have had loads of issues (e.g. family, ex's, distances!) We have overcome all of them. My family originally did not want me to be with him, but they have come around to the idea. They aren't completely thrilled but I put it to them as I love him and I would choose him over them. Distance has always been and issue, so I left my job and found a job closer to him. It was so we could move our life on from where it was stuck. But now he has family issues, so all our plans have been thrown out of the window. And I have been clearly been told by him that his family comes first then me. I would understand that if we had been seeing each other for a few months, but at this stage we are each other's family. To add to it he now has very little time for me (yet is able to attend work do's and friend's birthday meals). I am not really sure what to do? I am in a strange place where the only person I know is him, I have very little friends and I cannot turn back to my family for help because they will say we told you so. And off you get married to someone we choose this time! This is not how I had thought life would turn out. What should I do?

I think you should talk things over and mention that you feel you are a part of his family now and that is what you want to be. Be gentle and careful when you speak, because he is obviously going through a difficult time. I think you should give him some time and breathing space for a while then see how it goes.