Take a break?

Me and my husband have decided to take a break after nearly 4 years of marriage. He started a new job 6 months ago, and has been highly promoted! Trouble is he is now working all hours, 7 days a week sometimes 18 hour shifts, living on 3 hours sleep and not much food! He stays on site most night. So the problem is does he need to work all these hours? Or are they just an excuse? For another relationship? Time and fun away from me? I'm so paranoid I'm constantly questioning him and driving him away! There's lots more to the story, but that about sums it up! Ps. He is on a salary so there is no way of knowing exactly how many hours he works from pay dockets etc.

You need to approach him and express your concerns in a gentle manner. If you have taken a break from one another then he may not be working all those hours or staying on site. If you are meant to be back together then he will level with you. Never pry unnecessarily as that may only lead to resentment. Good Luck!