Am I stupid?

I met this guy 2011 around july. He told me he has a son with his girlfriend. He wont marry her cuz they are both AS genotype and it was a miracle that their son is AA genotype. He is out of job too since 2011. He proposed to me cuz my genotype is AA. we have a baby girl who is 16months now and am 5weeks gone too. He has not told any of his family or friends about us. He keep telling me that the girlfriend is insisting he marries her and she's living with her parents. I should wait for him to get work before making it public if not the girlfriend will start fighting me. Am stil living with my mother which has been hell for me. We went to marriage registery, the name he wrote was not his real name, i asked him and he said to avoid the girlfriend to disturb me. I've been taking care of my baby with my salary. What should i do? Should i tell his family? Or stil keep calm till when? Pls help me cuz am going insane.

OH HELL NO. Dump this lying sack of cheater right now. All he is telling you is lies. He's not gonna leave that girl. Ever. He is simply a guy who took advantage of you, and is to cowardly to take responsibility for his actions, that he has to pile on lie after lie to keep it going. Yes, tell the girlfriend, and then explain that you're sorry. That way, you both get rid of that dirtbag, and you am your kids can have a normal life.

Dump the looser ! Don't do anything , Enjoy your daughter. Let the rest go away . he wants his cake and cupcake to . Stop feeding him. Life is to short for That .