What should I do? How can I make my ex love me back?

Hi all, I'm very troubled now, between me and my ex. His my first love and I am his first love too. We were together for nearly 3 years. But because he said he didn't had anymore feelings towards me, we broke off. It happened at least 3times before we officially broke off. We kept a distance for about 2-3weeks, and during that period of time he met another girl who he got into a relationship with, but soon after they broke off cos he said he wasn't ready for any r/s. The thing is, we've contacted and became fwb(friends with benefits), he still cares a lot for me, & I want to be there for him and how do I make him fall back in love with me again? Or he didn't really lost his feelings at all? I am very lost, and I don't really know what to do anymore. It's making me very vexed when I secretly found out he got together with the girl after we broke up, & they still meet up. But she likes him, which is making me afraid. Is there anything I can do to secure my place? Thanks a lot, if anyone could help me out by giving me advices.

Know what I think? Don't do anything. Why should you have to go crawling back to him? He was the one who made the mistake, not you. I don't mean to be mean, but he's probably only trying to get you back because this other girl wasn't what he wanted, and she thinks he was really into her. You don't need to do anything, sweetheart. You can't help falling out of love. And you deserve better than to backslide into a relationship that may or may not be real. Make HIM prove his love to you, and if he doesn't? Give him the same excuse he gave you, and move on.

Stop the FWB and see how long he stays around . Good advice don't chase him . Move on It's easier said than done.