Trying to get my ex back - progress finally but now what?

Me and my gf were together for 3 years, she broke up with me in august due to arguments between us. I have been trying to get her back ever since and made all the basic mistakes in the beginning (beg, plead, cry, big gifts, etc). All this did was make her angry, break all contact and be mean. She went full on angry, got a new bf and started using him to lash out at me every chance she got. I stopped and realized the mistakes I was making and started seeking help online, posting on forums etc. I wound up doing soemthing I thought was stupid at the time by getting "relationship coaching" from this site http://www.zoomonkey.com. At first i thought I wasted my time and cash, but it looks like it's given me progress in the long run. She contacted me to give me the last of my stuff, and stopped being mean and angry, saying she wants to talk. I didn't expect it to be as far ahead in "the plan" as it was though and messed up. She told me she still thinks about me, misses me, dreams about me, thinks im "the one", still loves me, etc etc, but also basically said shes not changing her path with this new guy. "I'm not against us in the future" she says. what in the world. Anyway, i made the mistake of giving her all the emotional stuff that i shoudlnt have, saying i still love her and want her back and blah blah, big mistake i know. So now, were supposed to meet up in person to continue "part 2" of this talk soon, but I don't know when, and i don't know how to handle it when it happens. tips? suggestions? help?

Just be your self!, it worked once before.