Trapped in a triangle

Hi, I was am unhappily married. I met another guy. He said all the right things and appeared to just be looking for a good time. He knew I was married and just wanted to get with me. My husband found out. The first time I got the guy to talk to me again. This time the guy refuses. The guy knows that he can lose his job and career if my husband finds out. I know I need to stop pursuing him but I can't stop. What is wrong with me? I am trying to work it out with my husband but we keep fighting and I just want this other guy to tell me it will be okay. I know the other guy will not ever be there for anything other than sex.

Nothing is wrong with you, we have been in someday and somehow in this position. especially when thing go wrong at home. but remember the the grass is always greener on the other side... not so sure. Everyone have problems, issues way of thinking differently that ours. Like you said, if is only sex, well try it with your husband. Do crazy thing with him, spice up the love making. Go to couples therapy, it might help. Alot of thing can go wrong if you continue like this. If he looses is job, you know you will feel guilty. Look, i am another guy, and i can tell you that everything will be okay. Think about your needs and your husband too. hope i can help