I don't know what to do anymore

hello there, i have been with my girlfriend for over 15 months now and im starting to get really pathetic with myself, i dont like her talking to other men or sometimes even worser things. i have got to the point where i just cant cope, she has advised me to see someone but i will find it too hard to tell people what really gets me down, does anyone have any ideas what i can do? please please please help me.

Hi Brian, You seem to love your partner alot, but you do need to give her some space to breath. Love can take on many forms, and you must be very careful that it does not turn into obsession and possesiveness. This is what seems to be happening to you right now, and it must be controlled. You will end up losing her if you carry on. There are ways to make yourself stand back and look at the situation from an outsiders or different angle. Let her go out on her own, ask if she had a nice time. Ask how work was that day, if she has talked to any men, remember how many women you have spoken to, and think how would you like to be accused of chatting them up, its not nice to be accused of something you have not done. Try being in her shoes, and ask yourself the same accusing questions, you wont like it. At the end of the day, youmust open up to her, and say how you feel, DO NOT SHOUT ABOUT IT. Talking is a great therapy, and will resolve many queries. My problem is a little under yours on this page, and you being a bloke might want to give me some insight as I havent a clue what to do my self. Funny how someone elses probs can be resolved by an outsider. Good luck.