What should I do ? Please help!:(

I feel so bad, I don't know if I should share this , but I think I have too.. Because its killing me :( So, Ive met this guy, we been dating for like 3 months, and his personality is too good to be true, so kind, honest and also romantic. But! I cant find him attractive, I seriously love hanging out with him, and I really think that we could build a future together, but .. When I kiss him, i feel uncomfortble. I don't get "butterflies" at all.. Its just.. Nothing. i honestly want to be with him. What should I do? Is it possible that this is a temporary thing?, and that I find him attractive with time? i really need help with this :'(

I think you owe it to him to deal honestly with your feelings. After two decades in a relationship in which we got along perfectly in every way except a rotten sex life because my ex wife says she never really felt attracted to me that way, she left me for another guy, breaking up our family, costing me a fortune in division of property, alimony and child support, and absolutely devastating me in a way thats taken years to recover. My kids are still working through difficulties as a result. Believe you me, its best to own up to your feelings from the beginning. Don't try to fool yourself.