Seeking advice

My husband and I have been together for 8 years, married 2. I have a child from a previous relationship (not marriage) and we together have a son. Over the years my husband has become withdrawn from me sexually and showed zero signs of affection. There became a point when I realized that I had put all the effort into initiating any signs of affection or even sex. During my pregnancy with our son, he never once comforted me, but instead made comments like "I am afraid to touch you". I grew distant from him over time to the point that I asked him to move out. Recently he stopped and realized that he is addicted to video games, has a low testosterone level, and did ignore me. I don't want to go down the same road again. I fell out of love with him and I don't know what to do. Best part is that we work together and I can not even talk to him because he is always analyzing what I am saying. I am lost...l

You need to have a serious talk with your husband and tell him how you feel. You also need to hear him out. Sometimes partners don't communicate how they feel and that usually brings problems to marriages. Now, if you feel that you really don't love him anymore then you need to move on with your life. But if you want to give him a last chance you should consider going to professional therapy. Because I think those issues can definitely be solved if he acts on them. Think about it, talk to yourself calmly and try to make the right decision. Hope the best for you.

We did seek counseling over the situation. After each session he would just laugh it off and make pokes at the counselor. He comes up with the reason why its not working but its always a different reason.