His kid

so ive been dating this guy for about two months now and he is just perfect,i could never ask for someone better than him but the problem is he has got a kid from his former relationship he spends most of the time with him and hardly have any time for me thats get me so very jealous and i feel neglected but i dont dare talk to him about it becoz i dont want him to think i want to seperate him from his child but it hurts me to know am much less important to him than the kid i love them both very much but i wish he could spare some time for me too deep down i feel i should just break up with him and that this would be the right solution but i cant do it i love him and am so lost right now wouldnt mind some advice

Eva, by loving him and stating he is just perfect and you couldn't ask for someone better means you have accepted him totally. His child comes first because he's a parent and a father and by the look of it, he takes this responsibility seriously. If you get jealous about this responsibility, then you will always feel this way because his child will be there for life. Instead of fearing your BF's reaction about the issue, you need to explain the situation to him because if he loves you as you love him, he will make time for you as well. BUT...if you feel deep down you should move on, then your instinct is telling you this IS the right solution and as hard as it is, it's what you should do for the best outcome.