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Ok so I've been with this girl for a couple of months now, and it's both our first time relationship, and it's fair to say it's a learning experience for both of us, and I've always told myself that I'd like my first relationship to be my only relationship, might seem crazy and unrealistic and it may not turn out that way but I'd like to try and stick to that.

First time relationship

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Sorry about the split thread accidentally hit enter. But basically I'm having a hard time getting her to open up to me, I'd love her to because I'd be happy to listen to all and any of her problems day or night, but I just can't help that she doesn't feel comfortable yet, and I don't really know what I can do to try and encourage it. I'm slightly scared to say the wrong thing to offend her, I'm also a little hesistant on opening up to her on my own problems (I have a bit) for the simple reason I don't want to portray the image that I'm moaning, and that I dislike my life cause as it currently stands I love it, and I love being with her. I suppose at the end of the day I'm just asking for any form of general first time relationship advice that can be applied to both of us, just to make us feel more comfortable with each other.

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Dannyboy, We can't really offer any advice to someone in first time relationship other than to be yourself. You're both on a learning curve (pretty steep one too) but trust is what develops first with new relationships and most successful relationships are built on trust. Once your GF trusts you, she'll 'talk' to you and you'll find yourself doing the same with her. Once this happens then respect for each other kicks in. Once you have trust and respect, you're well on your way.

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