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My wife and I have been separated for two weeks now. She is living with her family, and she says she just has not been feeling the same as she use too. She says she still loves me and cares about me. She has never said she wanted a divorce and she says another man is the last thing on her mind. She doesn't like to talk about it a lot. I have been wanting to go out with her alone without our child so we can be together and maybe she will realize how much fun we have together. I also want to send her flowers...my wife loved the sappy romantic stuff and I don't know if me sending her flowers would be a good idea?

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I think that giving her flowers is a good idea.. IF you do it right, because I know this sounds bad but you don't want to seem desperate and make her the "authority" of the situation if that makes sense. But at the same time it could be a nice and sweet gesture, I would need to know more about your wife but I think that if you send her flowers in a sweet/cheesy way then it could work out well, it really depends on the person (you probably know how she'd react better than anyone). I know it's not much but I hope I helped:)

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I am absolutely the sappy romantic guy. I have done so many romantic stuff for my wife in the past 9 years. I get excited to make her happy with that kinda thing. I just didn't know if it would be a good idea since she wanted space. She still talks to me everyday either through text or calling and I know she doesn't want it to completely end or I think it would have been over by now. She said she hasn't thought about divorce but just needs space. She loves sappy romantic stuff so I think even though she wants space I think sending her flowers would make her happy. I am giving her space, and trying not to be too pushy with her but I am also being persistant with talking to her and show her how sorry I am about everything that has happened, and how I am working on myself to be the man she fell in love with. I never want to lose her. I was thinking of sending flowers to her at work, I think it would be a good idea..

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