Boyfriend relationship

The problem I have is I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years we both love each other but there's no trust in relationships we constant argue but he's so kind hearted is nice when he wants to be but horrible most times and has a really bad anger and swears at me doesn't let me do anything always accusing me

Seriously, your BF has a problem and you just enable it by hanging in there. There's 2 sides to every story, but in your case, you've outlined your side which paints a pretty miserable picture. His little bit of niceness doesn't compensate for his most of the time horribleness. Tell him how you feel... if he listens or cares, he'll do something about it..if he doesn't, then the ball's in your court to find someone who treats you the way you deserve to be. We always say we love someone, but verbal abuse, argumentativeness, anger and bad language and a mistrustful and controlling nature are not the things a true, loving relationship is based on.

I know but he doesn't trust me and he said I control him aswell but if he lets me do things I will let him aswell an we both agreed to take space but he text me yesterday saying he misses me so I asked him to come and see me so we can talk but he said no we have to be strong so now he's being stubborn I think he is not making a effort atall