Wife says no more

I had recently added a story about my wife falling for my best friend and she ended up cheating on me with him and now wants to make things right with me, but really only on her terms, I have asked several times for things to change and well she will have no part of that the things I want to change she won't do, but yet tells me all the time that she is doing everything to change yeah right sorry, but I love her so much and she is the mother of my 3 children what to do any advice,...

Negotiation allows us to win/win and sometimes we don't see this because the other party was/is at fault, and quite often the only way to solve issues for a good cause and a workable result is to negotiate. Your 3 children are more than a good cause. And heads up Golfman, once a cheater, always a cheater.

Thx for responding susiedq, the things we discussed were getting rid of the internet, but having no part of that cause that would I tale loosening Facebook and email, but the phones and stuff have that, but it's to hard to type on that, and we talked about less int use but that was a argument, she just yells and tell me she an adult and that she can use it as much as she wants, but I gave up use it all you want and talk to whom ever you want. But the last fees days have been pretty good around and don't want to spoil that by opening my mouth, for the kids anyway.....

Manalone hey thx for that and I realize that saying is usually true but in my heart call me a fool I think maybe it always isn't, I want to believe that the wife and my best friend well not anymore wouldn't lie to me and that there are not communicating anymore....