He doesn't want my body any more

me and my partner have been together for 4 years we have one daughter together, i have three children from a previous marraige, we all live together as a family, for the past two years things have been complicated for us as a couple we seperated thinking it was for the best but we got back together as we truly love each other but even before the split i had issues with his sex drive, i just dont seem to be getting satification from the lack of it, i know children can play a part in this but i am the sole full time carerfor the chldren and i cook clean and do everything for the house hold including paying the bill on what little money i have so he shouldnt have any stress, he goes to work full time as a mechanic he tells me how the lads go on about their wives not putting out and how they want more sex but he doesnt see how lucky he is i am always here ever ready praying wishing hoping he will just wisk me of my feet, one of the reasons we split was because i felt like i was his mum doing every thing for him but with out intemacy, im starting to feel like this again i maintain my body hair nailsmakeup but he just isnt ineterested in the slightest i dont know what to do im scared if we split again it wont be for long and we will be back together with the same issues, i dont want to lose him he means the world to me but i dont know how long i can cope please help with advice

Hi I can't really help you but I completely understand your feelings.My husband and I had a perfect sex life for years until about 18 months ago.We have serious financial problems that are destroying our relationship. I need to feel loved but it just isnt happening. He tells me he loves me but its not enough. I am sorry I cant help but wish you well..

did you ever talk to your partner about this. a sex life in a relationship is a very important thing to have first off then second off well try to make the first move wear something sexy to bed one night and see what he says and if it does not work talk to your partner about it (if you already haven't talked to him about it) if this continues he thinks of you more like a mom then in a relationship so just break it off if it is too bad but you have to think about the kids too it sucks if they all get split apart so really try hard to make it work i wish you the best of luck to you and no offense but that is a @SS move that makes me so mad i'm here for you and try to see if he loves you as a mom or wife