First long term relationship ever! Is he the one?

I met him two years ago, we started seriously dating ten months ago. He has a daughter , who's two, she hasn't quite warmed up to me, but I'm optimistic she will. That's not the issue though, just filling people in because that could affect the overall end result for advice.He's twenty three and employed, as a construction worker with alot of on-call duty. He's got alot going for him, I just keep wondering if we'll be happy together forever. I'm very sensitive and he lies to tease me because it's funny, when I get fed up I tease him back and he usually storms off. He's a bit racist, and he doesn't seem to understand that when I cheated, which I did apologize for after he refused to leave me, he was the reason because he kept saying every time I left to hang with friends I would cheat, I ended up getting mad and going through with it. I never would have otherwise. He now won't trust me alone and he breaks into my Facebook and reads my messages. Without asking me . I ask him to show me his phone and sometimes he hides the screen but I never hack his this cus of it. And I only am curious because he doesn't trust me. Am I crazy to think maybe moving in with him in a month is a terrible idea? I wouldn't be alone with him, his dad js moving in too. Help!

Oh dear, oh dear. You aren't off to a good start moving in with the guy no matter how long you've known him. You met him when his wife/gf was pregnant? Trust is a big part of any relationship. How you go about this is probably best saying to him before you move in... 'Before I move in I need to run a few things by you...' Then from the list you will have made you will mention everything that's on your mind and the trust issue. 'I cannot move in if you don't trust me because I am simply not prepared to pay for the rest of my life for one silly mistake. If you are going to continually mistrust me & make me feel uncomfortable by interrogating me and spying on me then there is no future for us which saddens me greatly.' Something like that. Hope I helped. Good luck with it all.

Sounds like way too much drama....you both need to grow up and decide if you are going to be together or not. Breaking up over angry texts is immature.....cheating because he kept saying you were, so you did? Immature. IMO, you should end the relationship and put the focus back on yourself and your own future, with or without this guy. Good luck!