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Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now. In the beginning, everything was great! We got along so great I couldn't believe it. About 6 months ago, things started going downhill. He moved back in with his parents in May, who made him get a job and he went back to school. This is great, but he started having changes. He moved out before in high school because they made him stay home all the time to watch his sister. Ever since then, he has been angry towards me. I have tried to help him but he just seems to get upset. He wont tell his parents how he feels and takes it out on me. It has gotten to the point that we are arguing a lot and I'm very stressed. He has other problems that I believe he needs to get fixed. We argue and then he apoligizes because he realizes that he's wrong but then he will turn it around on me! I've done my share of wrong things but I have been trying to go to therapy. I have ADHD and he blames me for him not knowing anything about it. I feel like we can't talk without it blowing up! I don't know what to do anymore. I just need guidance because I'm just tired of all the drama!

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Your BF needs to be mature and realize you're not the cause of his problems. You need to distance yourself from him while he continues to cause dramas for you. He's taking his stress, anger and frustration out on you. Rather than face his problems and improve his situation himself, he's immaturely involving you and arguing with you. Do yourself a favour and take two steps away from him and tell him he needs to have a good look in the mirror and 'man up' for you to continue being with him. You have your own problems and you're attempting to do something positive about them but his problems are his and his alone...not yours.

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Like manalone said take a break from him. Thats the best thing you could do anything else will risk your relationship. After he realizes how he lost you due to his attitude he will come back to you a changed man. When he comes back let him know straight up that if he acts like that again youll leave him so he knows theres a consiquence. Dont think i spelled that right

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