Fool me once, shame on you... Fool me twice, shame on me...

I met the guy of my dreams in work.... and fell for him straight away (I'm openly gay as is he, sorry to offend anyone!) - when we met he had a boyfriend who he had been with for a year but the relationship was over and he was ending it, for the coming months he went on dates with me and we became extremely close, he left his boyfriend and got with me... and things were fantastic but he suddenly left me and went back to his ex.. since then, they have split 5 times and got back together 5 times.... recently, the guy I fell for ended things entirely, he said it was different this time and said he never had the feeling he could go back to him, he wanted to start things over with me, become friends again and take it from there, things again after some time, got close between us, because we have so much chemistry and get on so fantastic, but tonight, I rang his mobile at 2am because he was out on the town to say I'm going to bed and his ex picks up his phone asking who is this and telling me Chris is in bed.... my heart sunk and I fell to tears, I'm the idiot that believed him, why :(

hi adam,read your problem and it looks to me as if he cant make up his mind what he wants and as your both willing to take him back each time things go wrong for him

sorry adam i sent my reply b4 i finished you have to decide what you want in life and tell him its you or his ex he cant have both hes lying to you by saying hes out on the town sit him down and talk it out with him or he will continue to do it to you both.