Need advice ?? Real rough patch in my relationship at the minute

Basically I have been with this girl for over a year a year now she's still in her teens (I'm 20). Recently she has had a lot of stuff going on one thing upsetting her has been her ex who cheated and made her feel like complete crap to put it briefly. Anyway she ha some other things going on and recently she has been so distant she will ignore my messages and we hardly speak. When we do speak it like everything is normal we are still how we was with each other before all this stuff happened and got dragged up. I just need some help with, what should I do ? Because to me it feels like I'm loosing her but at the same time I understand what's going on and I need to give her some space but I'm longing for the attention I'm used to

You say shes in her teens, that could explain a little. I think you should try to help her with her problems, show her you feel sorry for her. If she wants a bit of space let her have it, but make sure its not all about her, otherwise she might take advantage of this, or just feel smothered, just try not to go over the top either way. Still, its up to you. Good luck