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Can't find the drive.. the desire

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I am 50 my b/f is 57. We have been together for 1 year,and We usually see eachother every week,some time for more than 7 days,or as little as 3,and we always get along wonderfuly,wether we are out, or stay in. We communicate well when we are together, or apart.We are very affectionate towards one another all the time,and tell eachother all the time.. I LOVE YOU. The problem is I haven't seen him in two weeks,and he going on three. It seems the coupleness, the US Is falling,and I don't know what to do regain or retain it. He keeps saying he enjoys my company,which scares me,because it is lacking the connection we have , or do we still. What can I say to make sure we are on the same page,and the desire is there, i know he loves me, I am losing the connection..HELP!

Can't find the drive.. the desire

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You're fucking stupid then. You only go after people who give you a feeling of "excitement". He stays because he likes you and you get bored. That's the issue here. It is that you are bored. What a fucking joke.

Can't find the drive.. the desire

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Lady, forget about his spoken words, instead, worry about his actions. There's nothing you can say to ensure that you're both still on the same page. There's nothing you can do to retain or regain the togetherness you had. You need to realize that if he needed to be with you, then he would be with you in every way.

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