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Can someone help ! I am a male 41 i was married for 14 years then the marriege ended. I have been with my new partner for about 4 years. The problems is i think i might be bi becouse i have been thinking about sleeping with a man , but i have sleep't with one last year. I dont think about it all the time but just wanted to know what it was like am i gay can someone help. Thanks

hi mark,when you slept with this man you didnt say if it felt right or anything and maybe you were just experimenting and confused when your marraige ended, if you think your bi would you live a lie to your partner or would she understand,i dont think she would.your 41 now and in that whole time youve slept with one man i think you were experimenting as i think by now you would have done it again i dont think your are even bi maybe im wrong and someone else will give theyre opinion as well good luck.

Hi Ponty1964, Thanks for taking the time to read my add. Yea it did feel right at the time but dont think i would do it again. I dont think i can tell my partner as she is not that broad minded and think that would end the relationship but need to get if off my chest what worl you do? Many Thanks

hi, well if you seem as if you want to stay with your partner and thats great ,as long as your not living a lie ,some people do live a lie just to keep other people happy but you seem worried if your partner ended the relationship ,you,ll know further down the line what feels right for you ,you only have one life so be happy what ever you choose in life and which path you choose.

Hi Yes i do want to stay with my parnter as you said i think i was just seing what is was like. Yes i do feeel worried if she finished it that is propably deep down i can not tell her. Thanks once again