Trust

Husband has been secretly phoning an ex girlfriend before and now during our marriage( about 18 months ) I've only just found out about it. Apparantly nothing untoward happened but then why keep her a secret. She would text him whilst he was at work and he would ring her back and this has happened almost everyday. Why would he do this

hi, ive been in your situation but worse and i say if its a secret somethings going on if theres nothing in it he shouldnt hide it from you, are you the jealous type ,if its an innocent " how are you "kinda text would you blow your top so it would be easier to keep quiet,did he end it or her?do you think hes met up with her, the thing is if you dont sort it out it will eat you up and ruin you relationship like its doing with me,why do they need to keep in touch ?he needs to make a choice if its upsetting you ,and how did you find out was he honest enough to tell you himself or did someone else tell you.talk to him and find out why he needs to speak to this woman everyday.

mojo- he married you! your the one he wants! congratulations! seriously you need to just ask him why, ask him not to if it bothers you, but remember your the one he chose- you got to pity a girl who hangs onto someone who has been taken. personally i would call her, ask to meet up, and ask her what her intentions are! she might be nice without any underlying issues. its your choice but honestly- you won! you have him- the more you argue with him the more appealing she will become! invite her for dinner, shock them both, because it might not be as fun ifs its not a naughty secret and the novelty of phoning your man will soon wear off! good luck x