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I need some advice please

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I am in a complicated "relationship" with my current ex boyfriend. We only dated for a short time. We where planning on moving in together. We did decide to move in together as friends (his wishes). We spend a lot of time together he tells me that he loves me as a very close friend, he felt a connection with me ever since we first met and that I am very special to him. However he says that he isn't ready for a relationship with me or anyone. He is single as well as myself, but he isn't dating anyone or searching for anyone else. He is focused on his son and other personal issues. He says he doesn't know about us getting back together....i have a lot of insecurity issues and that is a problem for us. We have been physical together and only with each other....he isn't sleeping with anyone else currently. Is he just not interested in me anymore? He still likes to playfully touch me so I think he is still very attracted to me...could he just have a lot on his plate right now that he needs to put ahead of me and a relationship with me?

I need some advice please

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His priority is not you. Doesn't that ring any alarm? You come after his son, his personal problems and God knows what not. Isn't that itself a red flag? Move on Girl or you'll only be hurt in this one.

I need some advice please

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stop sleeping with him. You shouldn't play the wife/girlfriend role if hes not claiming you. Give him space and time

I need some advice please

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We aren't physical anymore. He has been straight forward that he loves me as a friend and that he isn't sure about our future as more than friends. Should i mind that his son comes first.......? He just got back into his son's life and wants to be a good dad to him now that he can.

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