Mixed signals

Am with this guy for over two years now and I told him I want to get married he said we would before 2014. now I ask him if has a date in mind and he said he's not ready.yes I got mad because he should have told me up front and I would have leave him alone.well am staying with him and I said if me being here is making you uncomfortable since we are not together even though he didn't say it in those words that he should let me know.well he said when he is uncomfortable with me being there he will let me know.I was upset about something and call someone to talk to about it he got upset and ask why I was crying and why I didn't talk to him instead of calling someone else.I don't know what's going because it seems like he is giving me mix signal.can someone help please on what I should do.