Relationship - feel like I make all the effort

nat Just made an account. I wondered if someone is able to help me. I'm in a relationship with a guy he's amazing and got a great personality but I feel I make the effort. I am the one who drives about to see him and pick him up everywhere. He doesn't drive. And the thing is he always comes to my house and I have never been to his once. Is he ashamed of me ?

That's a very simple question with a simple answer. Being no. If he was ashamed why in the world would he be in a relationship with you? There could be some other reason to why he doesn't bring you around to his, such as general embarrassment, his house is a mess or something. A myriad of other reasons are possible too. And I can't comment on the effort part, because you didn't provide enough substance for me to comment on it. As such I wouldn't take any advice given on this too much to heart. Since lack of information gives for an inaccurate picture and as such inaccurate advice. Such as SusieDQ's above me.

I totally agree with DOMINICWILD. There could be many reasons as to why he doesnt allow you to go to his house. You also say he is an amazing bf who doesnt drive so I think its only but 'normal' to ask your partner who does drive to take you around and about if they are free. My advice seems to be a lil scattered, therefore again, agreeing with DOMINICWILD maybe you could give a bit more 'specifics' so that we could try and give you some 'sound' advice.