Cheating???

So here is my problem... No sure if I can believe my husband of 17 years. I work day shift and he works swing shift hence he is home alone every morning. Well we have a "toy" box. I have noticed on numerous occasions he has gotten into it and I'm pretty sure some of the things appeared to be used. I also notice on these days that they towels in our bathroom are not the same as when I left in the am as if someone has cleaned himself. I asked him about this and he said he only gets into the box and he says he just checks to see if I have used anything in there cuz it turns him on. Is it even remotely possible that he is telling the truth or does he just think I'm really stupid?

Without sounding too explicit but he could well have used them. Men have G spots in other areas too and he may have found his in another area after 17 yrs!!! but may feel embarrassed to admit this to you. He may feel you may begin to question his sexuality (I feel even if the above is true you shouldnt because its only but normal) if you find out he does enjoy that. Maybe when you two are intimate you could try and initiate the use of such toys on him and see his reaction. For the moment however, I wouldnt stress yourself out by thinking of the worst ie cheating. Thats my thought on that matter :)

Doesn't look like he is cheating from whatever you have mentioned. It could be that he is probably fantasizing something with you and the toy box. Towels he could be using. If I were you, I wouldn't read too much into it.