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I'm a secret web cam model and need to tell my husband

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My husband and I are about to celebrate our 1 year anniversary and almost 5 years together total. I can usually tell him anything and we have a great relationship. Ive had a really hard time finding steady work and he basically supports us. I clean houses on the side but really don't make a lot. I recently got into web cam modeling and I like it and am starting to make good money. However my husband has no idea. I know I have to tell him I just can't find the words!!! He recently had something happen at work and he may not work for a while and he is freaking out thinking we are going to be strapped for cash. I'm dying to tell him that he doesnt have to worry I'm making money now but I'm scared to death. Mostly because I'm scared of how he may look at me but there's a big part of me that thinks he wont care that much because he will be happy to have all this extra cash! I desperately need advice as to how to approach this and do I tell him the truth about what I show on camera or make it seem more innocent than it actually is. I'm dying inside with this secret from him!!!

I'm a secret web cam model and need to tell my husband

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Well, I dont presume to judge but i would submit this. Look at your relationship and ask yourself does he love you more than money? or does the stress of money weigh more on his mind than not. based on that alone you will know his response. Second secrets/lies are like air bubbles in the foundation of any relationship. And eventually will cause serious issues. Just an fyi I hope I hoped somewhat.

I'm a secret web cam model and need to tell my husband

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You can may be start with asking him what he thinks of web cam models. Say maybe you have got an offer for it and it can earn you this much. See whats his reaction and decide based on that.

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