What to do please help

I am in a relationship with a guy since 7years. He is of different religion. We studied togethet for 5yrs. But now we live in different cities.Initially everything was just right. He always made mefeel special whether he was around or not. It took us really long to convince our parents' that we are actually compatible and we can be happy together. Now when everything is set n we r getting married in a couple of months, he seems to have changed. Now he doesnt have time for me. If a dont call him, he never bothers to talk to me, he doesnt pick up my calls easily. I know he is overworked and superbusy with his new job these days but he doesnt get even 5mins for me. He doesnt seem to be interested in the marriage preparations and all. He always says just one thing that i am tired, i need to sleep and he hangs up. Whenever i complain he is like i m nt able to take out time from this busy schedule. We always fight over this, but with no solution. He says that this wont happen from the next time. But that next time has not cime since 1 and half years. I m sad. I dont know ehat to do. Has he list intetest in me. Or is it just my mind over thinking. How do i come to know that. Please help me.

Weddings are one of the most stressful times in our lives. Maybe he is stepping back a bit in order not to get stressed out. Guys aren't into wedding preparations. I think they are concerned they will do something we are not happy with and we will nut out. To be fair it is a highly emotional time and EVERY bride not matter how easy going will nut out at some point. If as you think he nolonger wants to get marriage you must pin him down and talk before you continue making plans and paying deposits. Could he be concerned about money? Could he be concerned about your families not getting along and making things unpleasant for you? I'm sure if it was serious he would have said something by now, he's not going to leave you at the isle. It sounds like you have been through a lot together, you will get through this too.

Have you both thought of eloping?

Thanks but i dont think so that he has panicked becaise of the marriage thing, because at one point of time he himself wanted to get married. He had proposed to me saying that i would want to marry u someday and its not time pass he is doing. But i dont know what has happened to him lately. He doesnt look interested in me, my activities, my achievements nowadays. We never thought of eloping. It was always with the consensus that if we are to get married it will be with our parents' will and not otherwise. But now when the parents have agreed he seems to be loosing interest.