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I was having a really horrible day and my husband came home, I stayed locked in the toilet because I didnt want him to see I had been crying. I stayed in there for quite a while and when I saw him he asked if I was ok I said I was fed up with everything and he didnt ask what like, why, nothing only what I wanted for tea. He didn't care one bit and I know its because he doesn't give a damn and I feel so alone he is not there for me. He is not ssupported he is not my rock. All he had to do was say why was I fed up with everything and I would of been ok with him. Not only that he told me he had history on his phone and I could check it but there was none there so he lied to me. He as deleted it so I cant see and he as told me he as nothing to hide so why isnt it there. I know he goes on the Internet so theres no trust what soever and im wondering if I should get him out of my life. We have been married 18 years together 22 with three teenagers. I would walk oyt on him and my life if I could I wonder why I ever met him.

Should I leave him

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Sorry to hear that. Is this how he is most times? Maybe he just had a long day at work or a bad day at work. I think you should express your issues with him needing to be more supportive and lifting at times when you feel weak. Are you always open to hearing him vent? He should know that you guys are each other's number one go to when you want to vent or talk about your day. On the other hand life does get in the way and we tend to forget, maybe reminding him of that?

Should I leave him

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I saw the other post you made. I don't think your husband is the type that likes to sit down and talk. Are you still happy with him? You mentioned about having no trust. Do you still love him?

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