Dating sites

i have been wi6th my boyfriend for four months, i have just discovered that he has been on some dating sights in march, on my birthday and in june. is this normal or is this betrayal?

It appears that your boyfriend may be cheating on you. I think you should ask him why and discuss this with him. Perhaps your boyfriend may be indecisive in the relationship. Whether he wants to be with you or not should be discussed between the both of you. If this makes you uncomfortable, in the discussion a compromise should be met, so that you do not feel insecure about this. Since this could be cheating, or sometimes it could just about making friends, however it could be more. However in discussion this should come to light, if he avoids the issue you are suspicious for the right reasons. I hope I helped, good luck and have a wonderful day :)