I want her back

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 10months now, and it is a long distance relationship as we live in different cities. It takes us about 1.5hrs on the road to be able to reach each other. It was a love at first sight and she is totally my type of girl and is my dream girl whom i have longed. We loved each other alot when we first met, however, she got too broken when she discovered that i had a gf that time. I broke up with the then-gf and we had been together since then. Despite the distance between us, we had made it a point to meet up atleast once a week. We did not mind the long journey at first but as days went by, i felt that she had became lazy and felt too comfortable with not meeting regularly. It had been a super rocky journey for us as we had random tiffs every other weeks and one major quarrel every month. She felt that i had controlled and being too possessive towards her. we both have different expectation in this relationship. I love her alot but i make her mad like so frequently. I do not want to lose her, but i cant seem to stop myself from making her angry. She had claimed that I made her report her whereabouts, her activities and the people she was with. Yes, i may sound very paranoid when she doesn't respond to my messages. She has been ignoring me since then, could anyone of you out there pleas advice what can i do to win her heart back .I really love her alot and i seriously do not want to lose her....

Talk to her about you concerns. It seems like you already know that you two are different when it comes to relationships. It makes it easier when both people want the same thing out of the relationship. But when they don't it doesn't mean an automatic break up. If you both are committed to finding a solution, and I mean BOTH of you (you cant do this by yourself) then you both might make this work. Let her know if she feels like you are interrogating her, that maybe she could be more forthcoming about her daily life with out you there. You are in a long distance relationship so the things that you would normally see (her watching tv at home or leaving to go to the library) she has to verbally communicate to you. Tell her you are interested in her life and want her to tell you about it since you can not be there to witness it. It too bad she is taking this in a "you too controlling" way instead of a "you want to be more involved in my life" way. Also bring up that this is a long distance relationship and it is hard for you just as it is hard for her but that you are still making the effort. Mention that you feel she is not. Remember though that a lot of the time we will think that we are doing more then the other person and they will be thinking the reverse fyi.