Problems with my relationship

I'm having problems with my relationship I wish they would just go away. My boyfriend yelled and scared me and we haven't been talking

Problems almost always stem from not communicating. But there is a time and a place to sit down and talk. If you see your boyfriend is angry, or if you yourself are angry, put some space between the two of you at that moment and wait until the anger has subsided befor you to talk about the problem. If your boyfriend yelled at you and scared you, just calmly tell him that he's scaring you, and ask him to please not yell. Hopefully this will help him calm down a little bit. If that doesn't help, tell him you'll put whatever the issue is aside for the moment; then go on with your activities, and bring it up later when you both feel more at ease. Communication is a huge part of relationship maintenance. If you don't communicate, you can only assume - and assumptions are often wrong. Just don't try to push an issue when people are angry - most of the time, they will not be receptive to talking, and it will only make things worse. Good luck, I hope you can work things out. :)