Hang in there or not?

I'm 45 been dating a guy for almost two years. I've never been to his house or met his children. I've talked to his 20 year old son who swears his dad's not married. A few years back he got arrested on a huge drug bust. He ratted out some top guys and got paroled, but the cops keep making him set up more meetings so they can make more busts. He has one more year of parole and all he does is pray this is over with soon. He is so tired of this life and does not want me involved in any way. We have dinner, go for walks, meet for lunch and he comes to my house. My problem is that he's a truck driver who is out of town during most of the week and he spends his weekends with his kids. I pretty much get wed & fri nights (for about an hour) when he's coming back through town or we meet out of town from time to time. I'm ready for more! Should I wait out the year and see if things get better? I absolutely love every minute with him. He makes me laugh like no one else. Just wish we could have more.

I know its very hard when you love someone but this situation doesn't sound right at all. I personally would never deal with seeing the guy 2 days a week for about 1 hour after being together for 2 years. Who am I to judge I am on here for my own relationship problems. Maybe try giving a ultimatum even if you don't want to. Sometimes people will change if they think they lost you and realize that they don't want to lose you.. But then again you would be taking a gamble.