Loss of self confidence

i m tarun arora from india u.p i m 26 yrs old & in this december i'll be 27 but still i m not well settled in my life , i had lost my self confidence & now i m unable to take decision as well pls tell what should i do ? the problem is right now i m in my father's business since last 4 yrs & i m not comfortable there & my family is looking forward towards my marriage this year & on the other hand my elder brother wants me to settle in abroad i m so much confused & tired & i m unable to take decision between these 2 options ...my major problems r lost of self confidence , don't like travelling ,

Hi, I'm sorry to hear that you have lost some self confidence. I used to be very unconfident myself. I think it is important to get some distance, if only in your own mind and make a decision based on how YOU feel. Is the marriage an arranged one?