Boyfriend cheated

My boyfriend of 2 and a half yrs was cheating on me for the past month with his ex girlfriend. At first I kicked him out n said I wanted nothing else to do with him but over the next few days after talking with him about it and him answering every question I had n him begging to come back n telling me how sorry he was over and over I allowed him to come back home. It's only been a few days that he's back and I know he's really trying but I feel like I'm never going go get over this. I also feel like I'm an idiot for letting him back. There's no guarantee that he won't do this again. I'm so hurt. Is there any hope on saving a relationship after cheating and if so will it ever be good again? Please help

We will either cheat or we won't..we are loyal to others or we are not. Take your thoughts further and ask yourself why you would be with a man who has betrayed you after 2.5 years together? Forget his excuses... your relationship with him is broken. He wouldn't have to try if he really loved you and you're correct, there is no guarantee he won't do it again. There's an old saying..once a cheater, always a cheater.

i feel that you may have said the answer inside your question "im never going to get over this" a one time kiss cheating senario could be forgiven but a truly decietful cheat such as hiding something for a month is in another catagory. he is obviously mentally struggling and the question should be do you want to put your life on hold while he figures out who he wants to be with. my advice is to take the easy road. by that i mean allow him to try to make you happy but understand that ur relationship is most likely over. keep ur eyes open and enjoy life, there is bound to be someone to start a new relationship with. and maybe that person will be the REAL gentleman