Need advice

Hi all, I have a problem, and i feel bad for even asking. I have met a girl from scandanavia, and have been in a relationship for about 1 year and few months. She is not very happy here in the uk as not got anyone close to her apart from me, basically as not got friends or family, now i understand how she would feel, well not toally but i get the idea. I have fallen so much in love with her and i cant ever imagine my life without her, i love her with all my heart and she says she feels the same, but i have 2 kids aged 3 and 11 and i love them more than anything, but i am also not happy in the uk, but i cant leave due to the kids, and never had reason to until now as my partner is thinkingof going back home. Am i being selfish at the thought of leaving, and would i be selfish to say can you not make a sacrifice for the sake of true love?

If you are her only friend and comfort, then after 1 year and a bit, she hasn't really embraced your culture. This should give you a heads up of where you will stand in the future (if you stay together) with your children...and with her. Frankly, if she feels the same about you as you feel about her, you probably wouldn't be here on this forum because she would NEED to be with you, regardless of where she is from.