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My girlfriend stopped all contacts because I went out with her step father

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Hello. I recently got into a relationship with an amazing girl. Things were going great. Before coming to the problem, there is some history that needs to be highlighted. Her step-father drinks often. Sometimes, when he is drunk, he tries to come close to her in a way that no father should do with her daughter. This, coupled with the facts that he is not her own dad and that the person is extremely nosy and hyper-possessive, makes her hate him to the core. One Sunday evening, I had been to her area for some work. I met her dad who asked me out for a drink. I thought this would be the perfect moment to get to know this man and then act accordingly. My girlfriend's mom and herself were planning to shift to another place without her dad and I did not want this to happen. I went out with him, had a couple of drinks. Till that day everything was fine. Suddenly, she stopped responding. She neither picks my calls, not answers to my messages. I tried explaining to her through IM about what I did and why I did so. Still no budge. I tried speaking to her by calling her from a landline yesterday. But the moment she heard my voice, she disconnected. I am completely lost and I am not sure what to do. More than love, I care for her a lot. I will be leaving her city in a week and moviing to a new place. I have just 7 days and I need her to understand and help me make things better like before.

My girlfriend stopped all contacts because I went out with her step father

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You don't mention how she found out and it's pretty obvious, but in her eyes, no matter how noble(and foolish I might add)your intentions were, you have betrayed her by having a few drinks with the very man you have stated here she hates to the core..and by the sound of it, she has a very good reason to do so. You may only have 7 days before you leave but if you have tried nearly everything to get her to respond to you and she hasn't, then quite likely, you will leave the area without having the chance to make things right. She has made it as plain as day, that she doesn't want to talk to you. You state here.. "sometimes when he is drunk, he tries to come close to her in a way that no father should do with her daughter"...I'm wondering how you respect this guy? and no doubt, this amazing girl you met has put you in the same basket as him.

My girlfriend stopped all contacts because I went out with her step father

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Hello MANALONE...Thank you for your response. It was enlightening. Now I see where I was wrong. Believe me, hurting her in any way was not my intention. I just wanted to know this guy. I know I dont have much time. But is there any way I can atleast try to get my girl back? This is really depressing and this silence from her end is freaking me out.

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