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My sisters always pick on me and it really hurts my feelings. I have told them to be nicer to me but they do not listen. They say stuff like I am fat, I am loser and even a failure face. I know that they are joking but the majority of the time they take it to far. Like for example one day I went shopping with all of them and I came across a book that has a bunch of music staffs in it so you can write your own music. I got super excited when I saw it and showed my older sister. She looks at me and says but you never write music then I said well I want to learn. She then said well good luck and gave a look to my other sister. Every time I exercise she laughs at me. I started exercising because it releases a ton of stress I have and makes me worry less through out the day. This same sister told me that I will never be able to mount to anything and stills believe that. When we are alone together we never have anything to talk about because all she does is make fun of me. I just feel like she belittles me. I need help in figuring out how to stop listening to her.I have not loved myself in quite a while because of all the comments she says to me. I just need help in figuring out how to love myself.

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Knock-knock Who's there? Felix. Felix who? Felix my ice-cream I'll eat his! That's a joke. Telling someone they're fat or that they'll never amount to something is not funny, particularly when already alerted to the fact it upsets. Jealousy, rivalry, feeling threatened and putting someone down to the point of BULLYING in order to feel less bad about oneself/inferior and/or discharge ones negative emotions or downright moodies is a terrible thing. Have you not tried talking to your parents about this? It's their job to intervene in and resolve such matters, isn't it? Although, saying that - how old are you?

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Exactly! But, Goolsbee05, assuming you haven't all left home yet, I still think your parents would be doing your sisters a huge favour if they pulled them up on it, put a stop to it and forced them to look at *themselves*. Because they're crystal-clearly NOT HAPPY. "Nice people are happy people. Happy people are nice people. / Nasty people are unhappy people. Unhappy people are nasty people."

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