Help jealousy is getting the best of me

Hello everyone! Well I find myself in a pretty bad dilemma that explaining would take to long if I started from the very beginning. So anyways me and my fiance are about 14 weeks pregnant and I leave for 6 months to an undisclosed location. Our relationship has moved rather quickly and in total we been together 7 months. She has guy friends that she gives more attention to via text and calls and gets mad that I say that is inappropriate and can she tone it down. As well as she thinks I get into this attitude when all I really am doing in just watching TV and relaxing. So can some one please advise me on my jealousy issues as well as how to make every thing left on a good note before I start this 6 month mission..

Regardless if you are leaving, you need to analyze whether you guys are compatible and that you share the same standards. You state it's inappropriate, she sees it differently. If you feel your fiance is giving other guys more attention than you, then you need to ask her why she does this. She needs to reassure you that she is yours 100% not with words but with actions. If she uses her time with her phone and you relax in a totally different manner, then you need to realise that maybe you don't share enough interests. Given the time frame of your relationship and the fact that she is 14 weeks pregnant, you both should be still in the honeymoon stage which means you really should be interacting together with every little thing. Your anxiety about her actions with the phone is something that you both need to discuss and sort out. You have stated that you need to sort it but your fiance needs to be on the same page as you are for you to succeed in putting your fears to rest.