To tell or not to tell?

Hi. Not looking for a fix - it just some advice. I'm recently married and my partner and I used to fight a lot so we took a break for a few weeks and I hooked up with my ex (hubby knew about him as I was with him when I met hubby) not anything sequel just kissed but it felt good to be noticed and listened to. Anyway hubby and I got back together went on to get married and 2 months later separated. I went running back to me ex and again only kissed him. We still talk now and hubby & I are still in contact trying make it work. Hubby asked me if anything happened with my ex this time (he found out about last time) and I said no. Hubby will never find out about it but I still feel like lying to him again is just mean. Should I tell him I did it or should I just go on with life. We were not together when it happened but I know it hurt him to find out I lied about it again. So I guess my main question is, Would you want to know??

You guys need to work on your marriage and give it trust, respect and honesty..and communication. That way you wouldn't need to run back to your ex and you won't need to lie to your husband. Maybe you should consider counseling together which may or may not help you. Discover the reason why you had conflict and why you fought a lot and how you can, working together, help make your marriage more stable.