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Hi my name is steve i was having relationship of 15 yrs .and finally she broke up wid be becoz i was chatting a Girl in facebook for fun like sex and meeting but i dindt do anything it was juzt chatting.but know she has left me i love her a lot cant leave widout her i am helpless now.she is telling my love was fake and she hate the moments wen i touched her.finally i want to suicide to prove my love and also becoz without her i cant live.just for having some fun on facebook i lost all i hv ..... And the girl i chat was her frnd.pls suggest me some way

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Trust is the most basic feeling in the relation. It is what makes or breaks a relation. You broke her trust and its not easy to rebuild it. It will take lots of time and effort on your part to reach somewhere. One option is to tell the girl you chatted with that it was a mistake that you regret very much and you don't want to do anything with her (hopefully this message will reach your partner too). Then apologize to your partner, promise her it will never happen again and ask her to trust you this one time for all the past love you both have shared together. Trust me this won't work with just one try. You will have to keep trying for days together before she even thinks of... if she should give you the benefit of doubt or not.

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Dude! u totally messed up Its obvious she must hv been really shattered after wat u did so really think bout wat u did n how she must b feeling rytnow! But on the other hand Suicide is not a great way to solve problems u kno tht! Since it was like 15 yr old relationship m sure ur going to get her bck if u really feel tht guilt for wat u did.. Try to sort things out cuz killing urself wont solve a shit! Even "chatting " about sex with other women is not right..if ur talking about it who knows mayb ull do it in future..m sure thats wat ur gf must b thinking rytnow.. Find ways to patch up..Talk to her tell ur sorry n ders no way ur going to repeat this thing again..Tell her to take her time to think about it cuz u love her .Its going to take time for her to trust u again though but if u really love her that much m sure she'll listen to u.Make her feel like shes the most important person to u and that ur sorry for what u did.

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