Confused
JPALEX - Oct 11 2014 at 22:53
I've been with my partner for 2 years and think everything's great, like communication, sex etc. I just found out that she has a website dedicated to good looking men and even found some semi naked pics of herself inviting nude pics from guys. I'm confused. Is this really healthy in a relationship? Is it boredom, attention seeking? I thought it might be attention seeking due to some self image issues. Let me know.
It's quite obvious that the relationship you thought was great, isn't. The fact that you have just discovered her website, after 2 years, tells you that your relationship lacks communication, honesty and stability and now it lacks trust..the foundation of any relationship.
Forget about boredom and self image issues, you need to realise that if YOU were her priority, she wouldn't need a website dedicated to good looking men where she has semi naked pics of herself...it's that simple.
Ask yourself why you are confused and why you ask if it's healthy because it's your instinct telling you that it's not and furthermore, she is betraying herself and you AND your relationship together by her actions.