Second date

I met this girl one week in a club All went Well, second week and it Was my birthday so naturally out of politeness i ask her to come which to my surprise she offered! Strange thing first off Was her coming on her own to meet me and my mates as she lives in another town! Throughout the night she buys most of me and my freinds drinks which mustve totalled a fair amount, and continues to tell me that in the past shes hit men and that also her mum doesnt like her, that shes took drugs in the past and that she Also finds some woman attractive.naturally my freinds quietly warn me off, but I feel sorry for her and so it's a bit of a conundrum now..!!

Hi- You certainly do have a conundrum! This girl, from what I can tell, does not seem very stable. For a relationship to work, a woman has to be fully confident and able-bodied herself, and it looks like she has a history of substance abuse. It's very sweet of you to be worried about her- compassion is key- but I don't think you should pursue a relationship. A friendship, yes- maybe you can help her through her troubles- but be wary and don't get sucked into her lifestyle. Hope this helps.